Letting a practitioner into your energy field and life stream is incredibly vulnerable! I'm very picky when it comes to who I allow to read me. So there's the need to search for a Psychism Practitioner who is genuine, knowledgeable, skilled, and professional (which is difficult in the sea of "psychic" people parading as authentic), but then also the need to find someone who you are willing to let your guard down so the energy of a reading can flow well.
It is a difficult search. However! I know that if you are sincere with your desires to discover a Psychism Practitioner who can help you then you will find the person (but you may meet some con-artists/delusionals in the process).
My love and I went to see the Alanis Morissette concert last Wednesday so I have 'Hands Clean' playing in the background as I write this entry. Her show was fantastic and exactly what you'd expect from her!
I broke my no-readings-July-2024 and I had an hour free to move a client up from August. The person replied to move the reading up so that was yesterday. After the reading, I was left in contemplation. The reading went well and met my standards for my practice. The thing that stuck with me is how this person and my other clients allow me into their lives.
I write and talk extensively about the various factors that influence a reading's quality. So I won't go repeating that here. But! I will write here that if a person is fearful, too guarded, or the like then a reading will not be as enriched with information compared to someone who is open.
Energetics. There's no way around that basis and principle. It is what it is.
(I have Alanis 'Right Through You' playing now and I never heard this until the concert!)
When I do a reading, my intention is to focus on the energy momentum that a person is brewing which provides energetic data comprised of the Past, Present, and Future. Again, my website is full of information regarding this. I mention this because my focus is not to diagnosis a person's Psyche. To search for skeletons in the closet. Now...some of that information may come up, but the entire reading is dedicated to providing evidential information to confirm the themes and messages within the energy forecast and the 'songs' which are housed in the unknown.
Now...I have many stories that remain between me and my clients. People share things with me that they never shared with anyone else! It can be more difficult to not share them with me if I See, Hear, Feel, Know XYZ from within the client's energy field. I'm shocked when my client lets me know that he/she never told anyone else about XYZ.
I hold onto the secrets and keep them within my own mental library. I do this work because I want to help and Higher Mind will not get me out of this work. I also have witnessed the actual evidence of this work and skillset helping people so I treat this like a trade job and continue to do what I do.
(This is another Alanis song that I had no idea about until she played it!)
It is all 100% Confidential. I'm not a gossip queen. I cannot stand people who gossip. I don't even have any social media accounts!
This is a Practice.
Oh lord, I also have shared things from my life with the person who reads me that I haven't shared with anyone else.
Now...I'm very well aware of people who abuse this confidentiality and work to take advantage of clients and, on the extreme, develop cults and all the disgusting, predatory delusions parading the internet.
This is why I engage with own Great Inner Work.
It takes a lot of courage for a person to schedule a reading. To pay the fee. To learn about the process of a reading to know how a reading can assist. To then be willing to be Open enough and to Trust.
I think I do a great job at creating a reading environment for my clients to feel comfortable. My Cancer Sun Sign is perfect for that.