Your loved ones in Spirit should take all of the credit for a detailed, memorable reading. They are the superstars! Spirit continues to amaze me as I'm now nearly entering my 7th year of doing professional readings. The Medium just reports what is received. So! Truly, it is your loved ones doing all of the work.
We are left in grief. Left without the physical touch of our loved ones. Left with too many questions and shoulda-coulda-woulda. We are the ones struggling while our loved ones are off traveling through the Unseen.
It took until my most recent rewatch of Six Feet Under to somehow register the impact of my work - the positives and the negatives. Positives as in mediumship illuminating the continual existence of a loved one who left physicality. Negatives as in there are many people who are unfortunately taken advantage of due to their grief and their ignorance to the reality of these skills. Its a mess.
But the Positives are really what can make the difference between continuing physical existence with a realized connection with a loved one in spirit compared to blindly believing that those who died are obliterated into nothingness.
Spirit is just so good! I really think I want to start telling stories again, but in a way that makes the stories be absolutely confidential. I just find it so fascinating!
How Spirits appear in my mind tool. How somehow they just do it. It is amazing!
Your Loved Ones want you to know they're okay and that they're with you. Plain and Simple.
I may notice them start to pool around me prior to a reading...but when you hop on the call they rush in like a torrent of water. As if a dam burst and we are both swallowed by the force of Spirit!
They learn how to "press the Vision button" as in they know how to use my lens of perception to see something that pertains to you, spirit, or someone around you connected to spirit/you.
They learn how to exaggerate an impression or continue to give me the same impression louder so I understand that I must deliver what I receive. How Spirit will PUSH into my head that a Vision pertains to a very recent activity.
It is amazing! They are wonderful! Mediums rely on them and your energy is also involved. It is a Dance! An orchestra! A symphony!